Eileen, you were perfectly entitled to keep your personal health information private, and I don't believe that Hammer in any way stepped on that. I think we both know that Hammer like yourself is a long time and very well respected member here, who would never do anything offensive to anyone, least of all, you.
But now that you have shared your very concerning health situation, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Many of us on this forum have had similar news at some point in the past, and know how difficult this can be. Although we have never met, I feel that I know you after all these years of corresponding here, and I feel certain that you have the strength and character to handle whatever is ahead of you with dignity and courage.
Mike